POWERS OF ATTORNEY
Adoption is the process of irrevocably
transferring a birth parent’s parental rights
and responsibilities to adoptive parent(s).
Its intended effect is to legally and
irreversibly eliminate any and all rights of
biological parents, and transfer those same
rights and duties to adopting parents. Any
person, whether a minor or adult, may be
adopted. Once finalized, the law ceases to
recognize the biological parents as parents
of the adopted child.
Adoption is a viable option for military
personnel who want to expand their
families. Whether you are married,
divorced, or single, you may be eligible to
adopt. In addition, states generally do not
have income requirements for prospective
parents. Even if you already have children,
you may be able to adopt. Most notably,
servicemembers stationed overseas are
eligible to adopt from the U.S. or abroad.
There are two methods of adoption:
private adoption and agency adoption.
Before choosing which adoption method to
pursue, it is important to consider factors
such as the age of the child you are seeking
to adopt, whether to adopt domestically or
internationally, and adoption costs.
If you are considering adoption, research as
much about the process as possible. The
more you know about each adoption
method and process, the easier it will be to
understand and navigate an adoption. If
you have any further questions, please
contact the Misawa Air Base Legal Office.
THIS BROCHURE INCLUDES:
 WAYS TO ADOPT
 ADOPTION COSTS
 CLOSED V. OPEN ADOPTIONS
 INTERNATIONAL ADOPTIONS
 BENEFITS & REIMBURSEMENTS
The information in this brochure is of a general nature
and is not intended as a substitute for legal counsel.
Last updated April 2022
35TH FIGHTER WING
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FFICE OF THE STAFF JUDGE ADVOCATE
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ORII BUILDING, BLDG 656
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ISAWA AIR BASE, JAPAN
CONSIDERING ADOPTION?
ADOPTION
Do you have additional questions? If so, contact
the Misawa Air Base Legal Office and request to
schedule a Legal Assistance Appointment.
35th Fighter Wing Contact Information:
Email: 35fw.ja@us.af.mil
DSN Phone: 315-226-4022
DSN Fax: 315-226-2185
Commercial Phone: 011-81-176-77-4022
HELPFUL RESOURCES:
ADOPTUSKIDS
www.adoptuskids.org
CHILD WELFARE INFORMATION GATEWAY
www.childwelfare.gov
CITIZENSHIP AND IMMIGRATION SERVICES
www.uscis.gov/adoption
U.S. DEPARTMENT OF STATE
adoption.state.gov
US EMBASSY IN JAPAN
jp.usembassy.gov/services/adoption
MILITARY ONE SOURCE ADOPTION
C
ONSULTANT
Call 800-342-9647
DEFENSE FINANCE AND ACCOUNTING SERVICE
A
DOPTION REIMBURSEMENT
www.dfas.mil/militarymembers/
payentitlements/adoptionreimbursement.html
HOW ARE CHILDREN ADOPTED?
Children may be placed for adoption in a variety of
ways as follows:
1. Agency Placement: The procedure for adoption used
by licensed adoption agencies.
2. Direct Placement/Independent Adoption: The pro-
cedure for adoption used by the natural parents, plac-
ing their child directly into an unrelated adoptive
home without the help of an agency.
3. Stepparent Adoption: The procedure for adoption in
which the new spouse of a parent agrees to adopt the
child of his/her spouse from a prior relationship. This
relieves the non-custodial natural parent of further
child support obligations.
ARE THERE MORE PROBLEMS WITH DI-
RECT PLACEMENT THAN AGENCY PLACE-
MENT?
Yes. The problems are greater with direct (or inde-
pendent) placement than with agency placement. Cou-
ples considering adoption should ask themselves the
following questions:
1. What do we know about the child's background,
medical history, and birth parents?
2. How do we know that the legal procedures have
been followed, that the proper consent forms have
been obtained from the birth parents, and that the
child is legally available for adoption?
3. How can we guarantee privacy and security for our-
selves and for the child after the adoption and avoid
interference by one or both birth parents?
4. How can we best protect ourselves and the child for
the future?
When an agency places a child, every effort is made to
make sure that the child is placed in a suitable adop-
tive home with parents well-matched to the child's
background, capabilities, and medical history. The
adoptive parents will be told enough about the child to
inform them of these factors but not enough to identify
the birth parents. The child is placed with parents so
that there is no danger of recognition by the natural
parents or their friends or relatives. The adoptive parents
are assured that the child can legally be adopted. Their
home environment and backgrounds are checked and
studied thoroughly to make sure that they are ready and
able to adopt the child and provide adequately for him
or her. An agency placement means that every available
protection has been given to the natural parents, the
child, and the adoptive parents under state law.
WHAT ARE THE LEGAL STEPS TO ADOPT A
CHILD?
When adopting a child, it is necessary to file certain pa-
pers in court and, in most cases, to retain a private attor-
ney for assistance. The procedures will vary in individu-
al cases, depending on whether the proposed adoption is
legally based on abandonment, consent by the other par-
ent(s), or placement by an agency.
If you have a question about whether you will need a
private attorney, you should consult a Legal Assistance
attorney. In general, procedures for adoption are handled
by a local court in the county where the adoption is to
take place. There is usually a filing fee required with the
adoption petition. The basic steps are as follows:
1. P
ETITION FOR ADOPTION: This document is signed by the
adoptive parents and filed in the county where the child is liv-
ing, the county in which the adoption agency is located, or the
county in which the adoptive parents live.
2. If the adoption is by consent (either a stepparent adoption or
agency placement, for example), the next step is the filing of the
consent to the child's adoption by the natural parent(s) who
would give such consent. There can be investigator costs associ-
ated with this phase and the adoptive parents must make a
satisfactory effort to locate both birth parents. Such action can
involve hiring a process server or private investigator to try to
locate a missing biological parent. In some states, a child over a
certain age, often 12 years, must also consent to his or her own
adoption.
3. Next is the order of reference and the home study. The order
of reference involves referring the case to the adoption agency
or, in the case of a stepparent adoption by
consent, to the
county Department of Social Services (DSS) (or its equiv-
alent) for completion and filing of a home study of the
adoptive parent(s), their background and home situa-
tion, and how the child and parents interact.
4. Once the home study is completed, an interlocutory
decree may be issued. This is a temporary court order
giving the adoptive parents custody of the child
until the final order is issued. The interlocutory de-
cree is NOT a final order. It will usually take up to a
year between the interlocutory decree and the final
decree of adoption, but this varies from state to
state.
5. The final step is the filing of the final order of
adoption. This makes the child a legal member of
the family, just as if he or she had been born to the
adoptive parents. The child is able to inherit real and
personal property just like a natural child. After the
final decree, the birth certificate of the child is
amended and the new certificate will show the
adoptive parents as the birth parents of the child.
Adoption Reimbursement
Are you planning to or in the process of adopting a
child? Federal law authorizes reimbursement for
certain expenses associated with adoption to a maxi-
mum of $2000 per child and not to exceed $5000 per
calendar year.
Of course, there are requirements and limitations
you must be aware of. For instance, the adoption
must be arranged by qualified adoption agencies or
a source authorized under state or local law. Private
and stepchild adoptions must be finalized in a U.S.
court.
In order to qualify for the reimbursement, service
members must be serving on continuous active duty
for at least 180 days and the adoption must be final-
ized while on active duty. In addition, the claim
must be submitted while on active duty and within
the timeframe specified in DoD Instruction 1341.09
(within two years of the date that the adoption was
finalized for claims submitted on and after July 5,
2016; within one year for claims submitted prior to
that date).
Complete policy and procedures can be found in
DoD Instruction 1341.9 and Volume 7A, Appendix
A for the DoD Financial Management Regulation.
Here you can also find what expenses can be reim-
bursed as well as those that are excluded.